篇一：learn how to say no

weve all been taught that we should help people. it is the right thing to do and will make us popular with others. it may even win us favors in return.

however, we must be realistic. we cant say yes to every request. if we did, we would fail or go crazy for sure.

sometimes we simply dont have the time to help. in this case, we must know how to say no politely.

when we need to say no, here is one method we can try. first, we should tell the truth. if we really cant do something, we should just say so.Qx54.Com

second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. we must ***municate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. a true friend will understand.

finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. it can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble.

in short, we cannot please everyone all the time. refusing favors is a part of life.

译文：学习如何说不

我们都被教导应该帮助别人。这是应该做的，它会使我们受欢迎。它甚至会为我们赢得一些回报。

但是，我们必须要实际一点。我们不能答应每一个要求。如果我们那样做，我们一定会失败或发疯。

有时候我们真的没有时间帮忙。既然如此，我们就必须知道如何有礼貌地说不。

当我们需要说不的时候，我们有办法试试。首先，我们应该要说实话。如果我们真的做不了什么，我们应该说不。

第二，我们应该记住礼貌地拒绝对方的要求。我们必须清楚，但我们必须真诚和富有同情心。一个真正的朋友会谅解的。

最后，我们不必内疚地说不。有时候我们应该拒绝别人。它能为我们自己和其他人省去很多麻烦。

总而言之，我们不能总是取悦所有人。拒绝请求是人生的一部分。

篇二：how to be popular

most people would like to be popular with others, but not everyone can achieve this goal. what is the secret to popularity? in fact, it is very ******.

the first step is to improve our appearance. we should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress well.

when we are healthy and well-groomed, we will not only look better but also feel better. in addition, we should **ile and appear friendly. after all, our facial expression is an important part of our appearance.

if we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our confidence.

another important step is developing more consideration for others. we should always put others first and place their interests before our own. its also important to be good listeners; in this way people will feel ***fortable enough to confide in us.

however, no matter what we do, we must not gossip.

above all, we must remember to be ourselves, not phonies. only by being sincere and respectful of others can we earn their respect. if we can do all of the above, i am sure popularity will ***e our way.

译文：如何才能受人欢迎

大多数人都想受欢迎，但不是每个人都能实现自己的目标。受欢迎的秘诀何在?事实上是很简单的。

步骤一，先改善我们的外表。我们必须确保我们健康且穿着得体。当我们既健康又穿着得体时，我们不仅看起来更有活力，而且感觉好多了。

此外，我们需要微笑和友好。毕竟，面部表情是外表的重要组成部分。如果我们能做到这一点，别人会被我们的美貌所吸引，也会被我们的自信所打动。

另一个重要的步骤是培养对他人的考虑。永远以他人为重，并把别人的利益放在自己的利益之前。当个好听众也是很重要的;如此一来，别人才能很自在地对我们吐露心事。

但是，不管我们做什么，都不要闲聊。最重要的是做你自己，而不是做一个伪君子。只有你诚恳、尊重别人，才能赢得别人的尊重。

如果我们能做到以上几点，我相信人气就快到了。

[小学语文课前三分钟演讲稿]课前三分钟演讲稿（2） | 各位老师、同学们：

大家好!今天，我演讲的题目是“养成良好的习惯”。

有一个故事：很久以前，有一个小和尚想学着剪头发来帮助寺庙里的和尚。于是他开始用冬瓜练习，但每次用水洗冬瓜时，他总是把剃刀插进冬瓜里。

没多久就学会了如何剃发,当他第一次帮人剃发，去打水洗头时，“顺手”把剃刀插了上去。你可以想象，小和尚成了杀人犯。

究竟是什么给小和尚的一片好心带来害人害已的结果呢?

答案很简单。就是因为他用冬瓜作练习时养成了把剃刀插向冬瓜的习惯，尽管为自己的师兄剃发时心里想着这是人不是冬瓜，但手却不听使唤，习惯性地把刀插了上去，因此，是那个小小的坏习惯害了他。

虽然故事有些夸张，但我们不能做一个为别人理发的小和尚。但是同学们，你们有类似的坏习惯吗？例如：

随地吐痰、随意骂人、说脏话、随手乱扔乱撂、经常大声喧哗、在楼道里追逐打闹、自习课上说话等，如果有，它们迟早会给你带来或大或小的麻烦。

这个故事再一次告诉我们，坏习惯一旦形成，即使很小，也不容易改变，最终会给自己和他人带来伤害。

所以，我们平时要养成一些好的习惯，良好的习惯能够使我们在各个方面受益匪浅：平时不浪费一分一秒，努力学习就会使成绩上升;尽自己的一份力维持班级的卫生，就很有可能使班集体成为“卫生模范班”，如果每个同学都这样，学校也会变得干净漂亮，我们在其中学习、生活也会心情舒畅;平时坚持锻炼身体，就可能在运动会上一展风采;帮同学讲解问题，也许会使自己有新的发现;在家中帮父母做一些力所能及的家务，自己能做的事自己做，不给父母增添不必要的麻烦……

同学们，好习惯是成功的一半，养成好习惯，从现在开始，从自我做起！

谢谢大家!

[高中英语课前三分钟演讲稿sub-info" id="sub3">课前三分钟演讲稿（3） | 【英语课前三分钟演讲稿一】

good morning/afternoon! first thing first, i gotta say,wow,its funny thing to be given a chance like that.trurh be told,i really got a little bit nervous before i stand right here ,so called stage fright.

if you look specifically on me .you may find my hands shaking,pretty assembles the guy who suffered from pakinsons disease,and legs wobbling ,like i caught so-called ball leg. okay,lets stop going around the bush and get back to my topic today.

i really like to talk a funny story i have just heard.a lady called lucy emigrated to united states several years ago.her spoken english is not that fluent .

and one day,she is just sitting on the couch with his u.s friends mandy watching sit-***.a noise of bump had the attention of mandy,which led her to go out of the house trying to figure out what had happened.

can you imagine that mandy go straight out with merely a sweater.so lucy shouted at her,"lucy ,turn your clothes on." what suprised her most,beyond her wildest imagination, is that almost all the male in this country took their head out of the window.

admittedly,lucy made a mistake here .the word spitted means mandy is totally naked to the reason that male looked out of the window.the right sentence shall be,"put your clothing on.

"the story inspires you to take a careful look on the vast difference between eastern and western culture. thats full of it,thank you for your time!

【英语课前三分钟演讲稿二】

i have a dream every one has his own dream.when i was a little kid ,my dream was even to have a candy shop of my own .but now ,when i am 16 years old ,standing here ,my dreams have already changed a lot.

i have got quite different experience from other girls.while they were playing toys at home,while they were dreaming to be the princesses in the story .i was running in the hard rain,jumping in the heavy snow,pitching in the strong wind.

nothing could stop me ,because of a wonderful call from my heart -- to be an athlete.yeah ,of course ,im an athlete,im so proud of that all the time .

when i was 10 years old ,i became a shot-put athlete.the training was really hard ,i couldnt bear the heavy shot in my hands .but i always believe that "god only help those who help themselves".

during those hard days,i find i was growing more quickly than others of the same age.to be an athlete is my most correct choice.but,i quit my team after entering high school because of a silly excuse.

i really didnt want to stop my sports career anyway.

today i say to you my friends that even though i must face the difficulties of yesterday ,today and tomorrow .i still have a dream .it is a dream deeply rooted in my soul.

i have a dream that one day ,i can run,jump and pitch just like i used to be.

i have a dream that one day , i can go back to my dream sports and join the national team.

i have a dream that one day ,i can stand on the highest place at the olympic games.with all the cameras pointing at me.i will tell everyone that im so proud to be a chinese athlete!

this is my hope .this is the faith that i continue my steps with!!!

with this faith ,i will live though the strong wind and heavy rain ,never give up !

so let victory ring from my heart,from all of you.when we allow victory to ring .i must be the one!

in my imagination,im a bird ,a magical bird.i carry my dreams all with me by my big wings. i fly though the mountains ,though the forests ,over the sea,to the sun ,the warmest place in the aerospace!

every night ,i have a dream ,i see a girl ---**iling!

[大学生课前三分钟英语演讲稿sub-info" id="sub4">课前三分钟演讲稿（4） | 【一】大学生课前三分钟英语演讲稿

the first time i saw bao was in xx, the year when thomas and uber cup was held. at that time he was playing against li zongwei, who is also a good player from malaysia. bao beat him.

to tell the truth, at first the reason why i liked him was just because i thought he was pretty.*(maybe it is not a suitable word, but i think no better word can describe him, he is really pretty!) from that time, i have focused on him.

then gradually, i found that he not only has good appearance, but also has a talent for badminton.

he is very tall, about 1.90 meters. he is the tallest one among all the players in the chinese badminton team.

in xx, he is chosen as the flag holder stands for china in the opening ceremony in the 15th asian games held in doha. it was the first time that the badminton players were chosen to take over the special task, before which time, it belonged to the basketball players. it was a great honor.

and it also proved that bao was an excellent athlete. we are all proud of him.

he began to play badminton when he was at primary school. in xx, he won his first good medal, which was significant to him, in guangzhou. because of that, he entered the chinese badminton team.

as he is as old as lin dan, who is the top one in the world, he is always put into a situation which is not good to him. he seldom beats lin dan, so he gained a name which is called千年老二. in fact, his techniques are ***prehensive, but he is lack of passion, the desire to win is not so strong.

so he always has misplays. due to this, he seldom wins the gold medal. i think this is related to his character.

he is easygoing and couth; he looks as if he will never get angry with anybody. so this affects him while he is playing badminton. in a period of time, critical voice has ***e towards him.

he is under great pressure. he was not in the best state. but recently he cheers up again.

several days ago, the chinese badminton championship xx was held in guangzhou. i went to see him on saturday. i was very excited, and i shouted loudly, hoping he could hear me.

there is no doubt that he won the game. before he went away, he waved hand to us, how excited i was at that time! the next day, he beat li zongwei again and he won the mans single gold medal.

all of us are very happy. after 7 years, which could be a long time for an athlete, he proved himself again in guangzhou, which is considered as his lucky place.

i think this will be the energy of his advancing. and i hope he can keep this fighting will and win the gold medal in the 29th olympic games held in beijing!

【2】 大学生课前三分钟英语演讲

good afternoon,ladies and gentlemen!

im very honored to stand here and give you a short speech! to begin with ,i want to ask a question .does everybody dream a good dream last night?

actually ,today i want to talk about dream with you. of course, what i want to talk is not a dream you have last night,but a dream—— about life.

everyone has dreams about life, different dreams at different life stage,and we need dreams to support us. dreams are like the stars we never reach in the sky,but like most mariners,we can chart our course by them. with the dream,we have a direction,with a direction, we were no longer confused.

with the dream, there is hope,with hope, we have the strength to fight.

i have a dream: to be a doctor.，because doctor may relieve the pain of patients.

may let the human change the health. at the same time, i believed that, those who help others may be able to obtain joyfully. therefore, i hoped in the near future ,i might be a doctor.

but i know，life is tough,and there are always ups and downs, maybe we fail in the way to our aims,and we may feel depressed ,whenever at this time, the dream in our heart can always ***fort us, encourage us ,and support us to move ahead .

young!fortunately, i am young now. just due to it, i know that nothing is impossible.

i firmly believe that nothing can stand in my way. if i cant realize my dream,it result from that i havent work harder enough and i wont find other excuses. if no people believe you, you can make it to prove that you are right.

if you think the god havent blessed you and there is no truth here, you can be***e the god and create the truth.

"my breath swallows the sky and make the yellow river overflow, my sword is famous in kyushu and it can collapse the five sacred mountains." at some time in the past i also had am bitious words and i had some achievements. each achievement results from my hard work.

i always believe that "if you want to have more achievements than others, you must work harder." in some extent, the dream is the hope. if you can insist on doing something, the victory will ***e.

hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow. so my dear friends, think of your old and maybe dead dreams.

whatever it is, pick it up and make it alive from today. lets--- move ----out!

thank you for your listening!

best wishes!

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亲爱的同学们，尊敬的老师们大家好，

在这花开时节，腐花的残躯下，也会有嫩芽钻出.我们来到了这陌生又将熟悉的**中学，并将在这里伸展出，我们柔嫩的肢体。我们或许会默默无闻的虚度这3年的光阴；又或许会臭名昭著的度过，但我相信，我们都不想用以上2种方式去度过这关键的初中时段，更是不会想混日子的混过这3年。

在这初生的季节里，我们除旧布新，可能我们曾经是腐花败柳，但是那一点也不影响，我们个人对未来的期许和实现梦想的可能。“去日不可追，来日犹可期。”我们在人生的转折点，我们可能会走进死胡同，可能有很多选择、坎坷。但我们的人生还长，有足够的时间去重新开始。不要让一次失败抹杀了成功。

我们还处于豆蔻年华，对于情感的认识还不能说是完全健全，对友情，亲情，甚至爱情都还不能做出良好的分类和处理。贸然的相信主观的判断，通常是莽撞。

对于嘲笑和批评、绰号和别称，我们要想着“己所不欲,勿施于人”，要开始学会换位思考，先想想本身如果在那种情况或听到某些话时，自己的心情。开始学会‘三思而后行’。但也不能过多的缜密思考，那是多余的，会错过令自己扼腕的关键。

当此时，同学风华正茂，是时候马力全开的投入学习，拒绝外来的诱惑，认清自身的身份，定位要清楚。不能觉得自己还小，不懂事，来搪塞错误造成的破洞。“在家当好孩子，在校当好学生，在外当好青年”

综上所述，希望大家从此刻开始，合理的规划未来3年的进步，期待同学们能在未来的3年描绘一片美好的蓝图，预祝大家在初中毕业时，能够成功的欢聚微笑。

同学们，无论是古人的“天下兴亡、匹夫有责”，还是今人的“不拟霜同鬓，唯将国为家”；无论是朱自清宁死不食美国的救济粮，还是抗洪战士誓死捍卫大堤；无论是雷锋钉子般地钉在岗位上，还是王渊“不拿国籍换大奖”等，都体现了中华儿女对母亲亘古不变的爱。只有找到个人命运和祖国命运的最佳结合点，且顺应历史潮流而动，才有使不完的劲、用不完的力，才能实现人生的真正价值。今后你不管是走向社会，还是继续负笈求学，在把孝心献给父母的同时，更要把爱心献给社会、把忠心献给我们伟大的祖国！

同学们，当今世界科学技术突飞猛进，知识经济以见端倪，国力竞争日趋激烈，世界形式风云变换，过去李嘉诚那种低学识成为华人首富的时代已成为历史，过去那种靠祖业过安乐日子的做法将成为时人茶余饭后的笑柄，过去那种靠侨胞捐款爆发的机遇将月来越少。不管你是纨绔子弟，还是寒家少年，在这个倾斜的地球上要想占有一席之地，找到自己的位置，必须具有学习意识、竞争与协作意识、自我宣传意识和危机意识。不然今天游手好闲，明天还将付出成倍的代价弥补过去的那种玩世不恭。到那时，只有感叹“等闲白了少年头——空悲切”了。因此，你们务必牢牢记住：拥有了昨天，就应该努力地开拓今天；失去了昨天，就决不能再失去明天！

⬘ 诚信演讲稿三分钟 ⬘

亲爱的朋友们：

我为大家演讲的题目是《点亮理想》。

理想是一个人想达到的目标。有了目标，行走时不会苦，努力时不会累，委屈时不会抱怨。

已故著名教育家商友敬曾说："没有理想的人生是灰色的人生，没有理想的教育是黑色的教育，没有理想的教师是可怜的"口力劳动者"。"可见做理想的教育和有理想的教师是充实的。教育因为理想更有意义，充满了成就和愉悦。

说到理想，远的看看"杜朗口""新教育""洋思"，近的说说我们自己，90年代提出教学"七认真"，20xx年"两基普实"顺利达标，20xx年全县教育工作会畅想未来华章，骨干教师培训全面启动，这些收获无一不是教育工作者怀揣理想、朝着目标行进的硕果。

目前我县的教育积弊太多：教师整体素质不高，缺乏现代教育理念等等。但是我们有信心，因为有你!有我!有我们三千彭水教育者执着的理想!

心有多高，路就有多远。我是一名平凡而普通的老师，我的理想很简单，就是用我的青春、汗水和激情把学生培养成为有独立的人格，有良好的心态，有健康的体魄的接班人。我会告诉他们：人生有机遇和巧合，不是所有的努力都会成功，但是不努力绝对不能成功。即使达到理想的田园，努力的过程已经超越了结果本身。理想不能空想，理想不能靠运气，理想需要脚踏实地的耕耘，理想需要坚持不懈的奋斗!理想的实现浸染了勤奋和汗水。点亮理想，即使我们在枯燥孤独的日子亦能苦中做乐，苦中求乐。

没有比脚更长的路，没有比理想更蔚蓝的天空。新东方总裁俞敏洪先生从小就种下穿越地平线的理想，创业10多年来遇到挫折不气馁，碰到困难不低头，凭着坚持和创新的精神，让新东方闻名全国，实现了穿越地平线的理想。在未来的日子里，我会怀揣理想，撑一支篙向理想处前行。

首先立足实际，做好本职工作。以岗位职责要求自己，提高从业道德素质，不断锤炼课堂教学技能，做一名爱学生也受学生爱的老师;在管理上严于律己，身先示范，多渠道传递教改信息，搭建促进教师发展的平台。教导工作是一个示范工作，要想引导老师们围绕自己的教育理想去实践，我得有过硬的业务指导能力，有科研实践、科学评价教师的能力，所以我得不断地充电，不断地更新观念，不断地加强学习。

其次立足角色，谋好家庭教育。一个好的家长必是一个好的老师。如果每个家长都管理好了自己的孩子，那我们的教育当是最完美的教育。我要竭力做一个称职的母亲，引导孩子养成好习惯;积累家庭教育经验，发现家庭教育真谛。还要从家庭这个社会细胞上，研究家庭教育和学校教育的衔接，给学生创造一个良好的教育环境。

我的理想很简单，但我会沿着理想前进，点亮学生的未来，为彭水的教育尽一己之力。我坚信，不论未来是平坦还是泥泞只要热爱教育，一切都在意料中。

⬘ 诚信演讲稿三分钟 ⬘

敬爱的老师，亲爱的同学们：

大家早上好！

今天我讲话的主题是“有始有终，定能成功”。古希腊著名哲学家苏格拉底曾经在中学当教师，有一天他对班里同学说，我们来做个甩手游戏吧。游戏很简单，就是把手使劲往前甩三百下，再往后甩三百下，但要求每天都这样做。同学们纷纷说这个游戏容易，保证能做好。一个星期以后，苏格拉底问同学们游戏完成得怎么样？同学们全都举起了手。一个月以后，当苏格拉底再做统计时，全班仍有百分之九十的同学在坚持做。一年以后，当苏格拉底在课堂上再次向大家了解情况时，只有一位同学举起手，他就是后来成为大哲学家的亚里士多德。亚里士多德在自己的学习和生活中，凭着这种持之以恒的精神，自觉锻炼自己的意志，终于在哲学领域取得了前所未有的成就，其哲学思想直到现在仍然放射着智慧的光芒。

同学们，这个甩手游戏从动作上看很简单，但每天坚持，却是一件不容易的事，需要持之以恒的精神。这个故事告诉我们，做事情要有始有终，绝不能半途而废，如果我们能养成这样的好习惯，就一定会取得好成绩。人们常说，在科学之路上没有平坦的大道，只有敢于在崎岖的小路上不断攀登的人，才能到达希望的顶点。让我们认准自己的努力目标，坚持不懈地努力，不断地鼓励自己，这样我们就会体验到成功的喜悦和收获的快乐。

最后，我送给大家一句法国生物学家巴斯德的名言：“告诉你使我达到目标的奥秘吧，我惟一的力量就是我的坚持精神！

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